The other night, Sneezer had a concert at the Arena. There were all the 5th and 6th graders in district 81 at this which totaled to over 2,000 students. It was wonderful listening to all of them and how much they have learn in one and two years. Unfortunately our car was not ready so we had a day of riding the bus everywhere. After the concert, me and the fam. were waiting for a bus when this lady came around the corner yelling that the hospital had stolen her shoes. I thought it was quite funny b/c the lady was clearly on something. Then moments later, a man came up to my husband and told him that the aliens were leaving. I was on the cell with my mom, so I didn't find out til later what he said. There is quite a crowd downtown at night. Is that when all the crazies come out? I will say one thing though. We got our car back yesterday, ( all fixed, yay!) and we went and did some much needed grocery shopping and on the way out of the store, I saw a National enquirer that said " Aliens are going home" in bold letters on the cover. Hmmm? maybe that crazy guy knew something after all?
So I got a call on weds. night saying that my sister is in the hospital. she went to her U/S appt and they sent her to the OB and then OB sent her to the hospital. apparently she was having contractions and it thinned her cervix and she is now 90% effaced. So they are doing everything to keep those babies in there. They are aiming for 3 more weeks ( at least 34 weeks term) til it should be okay for the babies to come out. They are giving her steroids to strengthen the babies lungs and some trebutaline to stop those contractions. Hopefully all is well and those babies stay in there for a few more weeks.
I wish I could be there for when the babies are born, but unfortunately my kids do not get out of school til mid-June. We can visit them then.
Well that is about all here.
TTFN!
Friday, May 11, 2007
Friday, May 4, 2007
Random Post..
This morning, while cleaning in the girls room, I was getting the DS off of Sneezer's bed and I dropped it and half of the top screen came off! I was really freaking out! But sat down and was able to pop it back into place. Technically this DS is mine, since hubby got a new one in the color that he wanted, but I have been letting the kids play with this one. Sho-sho dropped it last night and while me and the girls were in Seattle, the boys lost the stylus and the part that goes in the "SP" portion of the system. So I have decided to not let them play it anymore. I know that I am the one that dropped it this morning and it is not their fault and they shouldn't be punished because of it, and I am not trying to do that. I just want the DS to be played carefully now. Plus they each have their own SP or micro that they can play, They don't need to be playing my DS.
I am suppose to meet with a friend this weekend that I have not seen in a while and am really looking forward to it and then the car started acting weird and so we had to bring it to the dealer to get it fixed. I told her about the car breaking down and she said that we can meet somewhere closer to my house. That was very nice of her seeing how she lives closer to Mom and Dad.
It turns out that the cars water pump is what was making that noise. So that needs to be fixed along with the oil leak that has not been located yet.
At my sister's shower, the host had her pens done up to look like a flower arrangement. I thought this was a great idea. We are always losing pens in our house and this would be a great way to keep track of them, and look nice too! I just need to get up to Michael's to get the materials to do this. Of course I need to finish other projects that I am working on. The boy blanket for my sister and then I started stripping the paint on this picnic table that my father in-law gave us. It was painted green, BLAH! Green is good on somethings, but not on a picnic table. I was hoping to have that repainted by next weekend. I was wanting to have a Luau/BBQ for Mother's day. My neighbor's birthday happens to land on Mother's day this year and I thought that since she BBQ'd for my b-day, that I would do the same for her.
Well I think that is about all for today. We are going to see the new Spiderman movie tomorrow. The kids, even the girls, are very excited about this film. I hope it is not a let down.
Well! Until next time.
I am suppose to meet with a friend this weekend that I have not seen in a while and am really looking forward to it and then the car started acting weird and so we had to bring it to the dealer to get it fixed. I told her about the car breaking down and she said that we can meet somewhere closer to my house. That was very nice of her seeing how she lives closer to Mom and Dad.
It turns out that the cars water pump is what was making that noise. So that needs to be fixed along with the oil leak that has not been located yet.
At my sister's shower, the host had her pens done up to look like a flower arrangement. I thought this was a great idea. We are always losing pens in our house and this would be a great way to keep track of them, and look nice too! I just need to get up to Michael's to get the materials to do this. Of course I need to finish other projects that I am working on. The boy blanket for my sister and then I started stripping the paint on this picnic table that my father in-law gave us. It was painted green, BLAH! Green is good on somethings, but not on a picnic table. I was hoping to have that repainted by next weekend. I was wanting to have a Luau/BBQ for Mother's day. My neighbor's birthday happens to land on Mother's day this year and I thought that since she BBQ'd for my b-day, that I would do the same for her.
Well I think that is about all for today. We are going to see the new Spiderman movie tomorrow. The kids, even the girls, are very excited about this film. I hope it is not a let down.
Well! Until next time.
Thursday, May 3, 2007
Please Bare With Me...
For those of you who read my blog and my sister's, you know that we have a troll among us that was once berating my sister on her blog and now, with all these better things she has to do, is now attempting to cause problems on mine. So this is a final message to her.
I have been reading your messages, but you should know that only I can see them. They will not be posted on my blogs and they do not have any effect on me. You can not belittle me, you can not put me down, as much as you try. I know who I am and no one can tell me otherwise. My blog yesterday was not put there to try and gain responses. I do not crave the attention that you so desperately seek. That blog was placed there to let you know that I know who/what you are and I will not have it anymore. Your attempt to cause friction here has failed and I laugh at your desperate ongoing attempts. This will be the last time I acknowledge you, so if you feel the need to cause negative energy, you will need to go elsewhere.
For the visitors of my blog that have seen any comments from this "troll" I would like to apologize.
To all, Have a wonderful day!
Until Next time.
Trina
I have been reading your messages, but you should know that only I can see them. They will not be posted on my blogs and they do not have any effect on me. You can not belittle me, you can not put me down, as much as you try. I know who I am and no one can tell me otherwise. My blog yesterday was not put there to try and gain responses. I do not crave the attention that you so desperately seek. That blog was placed there to let you know that I know who/what you are and I will not have it anymore. Your attempt to cause friction here has failed and I laugh at your desperate ongoing attempts. This will be the last time I acknowledge you, so if you feel the need to cause negative energy, you will need to go elsewhere.
For the visitors of my blog that have seen any comments from this "troll" I would like to apologize.
To all, Have a wonderful day!
Until Next time.
Trina
Wednesday, May 2, 2007
WARNING: TROLL ALERT!!
What is an Internet Troll?
An Internet "troll" is a person who delights in sowing discord on the Internet. He (and it is usually he) tries to start arguments and upset people.Trolls see Internet communications services as convenient venues for their bizarre game. For some reason, they don't "get" that they are hurting real people. To them, other Internet users are not quite human but are a kind of digital abstraction. As a result, they feel no sorrow whatsoever for the pain they inflict. Indeed, the greater the suffering they cause, the greater their 'achievement' (as they see it). At the moment, the relative anonymity of the net allows trolls to flourish.Trolls are utterly impervious to criticism (constructive or otherwise). You cannot negotiate with them; you cannot cause them to feel shame or compassion; you cannot reason with them. They cannot be made to feel remorse. For some reason, trolls do not feel they are bound by the rules of courtesy or social responsibility.
Why does it Matter?
Some people -- particularly those who have been online for years -- are not upset by trolls and consider them an inevitable hazard of using the net. As the saying goes, "You can't have a picnic without ants."It would be nice if everybody was so easy-going, but the sad fact is that trolls do discourage people. Established posters may leave a message board because of the arguments that trolls ignite, and lurkers (people who read but do not post) may decide that they do not want to expose themselves to abuse and thus never get involved.Another problem is that the negative emotions stirred up by trolls leak over into other discussions. Normally affable people can become bitter after reading an angry interchange between a troll and his victims, and this can poison previously friendly interactions between long-time users.Finally, trolls create a paranoid environment, such that a casual criticism by a new arrival can elicit a ferocious and inappropriate backlash.The Internet is a wonderful resource which is breaking down barriers and stripping away prejudice. Trolls threaten our continued enjoyment of this beautiful forum for ideas.
<...snip...>
The Webmaster's Challenge
When trolls are ignored they step up their attacks, desperately seeking the attention they crave. Their messages become more and more foul, and they post ever more of them. Alternatively, they may protest that their right to free speech is being curtailed -- more on this later.The moderator of a message board may not be able to delete a troll's messages right away, but their job is made much harder if they also have to read numerous replies to trolls. They are also forced to decide whether or not to delete posts from well-meaning folks which have the unintended effect of encouraging the troll.Some webmasters have to endure conscientious users telling them that they are "acting like dictators" and should never delete a single message. These people may be misinformed: they may have arrived at their opinion about a troll based on the messages they see, never realizing that the webmaster has already deleted his most horrific material. Please remember that a troll does have an alternative if he has something of value to say: there are services on the net that provide messaging systems free of charge. So the troll can set up his own message board, where he can make his own decisions about the kind of content he will tolerate.Just how much can we expect of a webmaster when it comes to preserving the principles of free speech? Some trolls find sport in determining what the breaking point is for a particular message board operator. They might post a dozen messages, each of which contains 400 lines of the letter "J". That is a form of expression, to be sure, but would you consider it your duty to play host to such a person?Perhaps the most difficult challenge for a webmaster is deciding whether to take steps against a troll that a few people find entertaining. Some trolls do have a creative spark and have chosen to squander it on being disruptive. There is a certain perverse pleasure in watching some of them. Ultimately, though, the webmaster has to decide if the troll actually cares about putting on a good show for the regular participants, or is simply playing to an audience of one -- himself.
What about Free Speech?
When trolls find that their efforts are being successfully resisted, they often complain that their right to free speech is being infringed. Let us examine that claim.While most people on the Internet are ardent defenders of free speech, it is not an absolute right; there are practical limitations. For example, you may not scream out "Fire!" in a crowded theatre, and you may not make jokes about bombs while waiting to board an airplane. We accept these limitations because we recognize that they serve a greater good.Another useful example is the control of the radio frequency spectrum. You might wish to set up a powerful radio station to broadcast your ideas, but you cannot do so without applying for a license. Again, this is a practical limitation: if everybody broadcasted without restriction, the repercussions would be annoying at best and life-threatening at worst.The radio example is helpful for another reason: with countless people having a legitimate need to use radio communications, it is important to ensure that nobody is 'monopolizing the channel'. There are only so many clear channels available in each frequency band and these must be shared.When a troll attacks a message board, he generally posts a lot of messages. Even if his messages are not particularly inflammatory, they can be so numerous that they drown out the regular conversations (this is known as 'flooding'). Needless to say, no one person's opinions can be allowed to monopolize a channel.
The ultimate response to the 'free speech' argument is this: while we may have the right to say more or less whatever we want, we do not have the right to say it wherever we want. You may feel strongly about the fact that your neighbor has not mowed his lawn for two months, but you do not have the right to berate him in his own living room. Similarly, if a webmaster tells a troll that he is not welcome, the troll has no "right" to remain. This is particularly true on the numerous free communications services offered on the net. (On pay systems, the troll might be justified in asking for a refund.)
Conclusion
Next time you are on a message board and you see a post by somebody whom you think is a troll, and you feel you must reply, simply write a follow-up message entitled "Troll Alert" and type only this:The only way to deal with trolls is to limit your reaction to reminding others not to respond to trolls.By posting such a message, you let the troll know that you know what he is, and that you are not going to get dragged into his twisted little hobby.
An Internet "troll" is a person who delights in sowing discord on the Internet. He (and it is usually he) tries to start arguments and upset people.Trolls see Internet communications services as convenient venues for their bizarre game. For some reason, they don't "get" that they are hurting real people. To them, other Internet users are not quite human but are a kind of digital abstraction. As a result, they feel no sorrow whatsoever for the pain they inflict. Indeed, the greater the suffering they cause, the greater their 'achievement' (as they see it). At the moment, the relative anonymity of the net allows trolls to flourish.Trolls are utterly impervious to criticism (constructive or otherwise). You cannot negotiate with them; you cannot cause them to feel shame or compassion; you cannot reason with them. They cannot be made to feel remorse. For some reason, trolls do not feel they are bound by the rules of courtesy or social responsibility.
Why does it Matter?
Some people -- particularly those who have been online for years -- are not upset by trolls and consider them an inevitable hazard of using the net. As the saying goes, "You can't have a picnic without ants."It would be nice if everybody was so easy-going, but the sad fact is that trolls do discourage people. Established posters may leave a message board because of the arguments that trolls ignite, and lurkers (people who read but do not post) may decide that they do not want to expose themselves to abuse and thus never get involved.Another problem is that the negative emotions stirred up by trolls leak over into other discussions. Normally affable people can become bitter after reading an angry interchange between a troll and his victims, and this can poison previously friendly interactions between long-time users.Finally, trolls create a paranoid environment, such that a casual criticism by a new arrival can elicit a ferocious and inappropriate backlash.The Internet is a wonderful resource which is breaking down barriers and stripping away prejudice. Trolls threaten our continued enjoyment of this beautiful forum for ideas.
<...snip...>
The Webmaster's Challenge
When trolls are ignored they step up their attacks, desperately seeking the attention they crave. Their messages become more and more foul, and they post ever more of them. Alternatively, they may protest that their right to free speech is being curtailed -- more on this later.The moderator of a message board may not be able to delete a troll's messages right away, but their job is made much harder if they also have to read numerous replies to trolls. They are also forced to decide whether or not to delete posts from well-meaning folks which have the unintended effect of encouraging the troll.Some webmasters have to endure conscientious users telling them that they are "acting like dictators" and should never delete a single message. These people may be misinformed: they may have arrived at their opinion about a troll based on the messages they see, never realizing that the webmaster has already deleted his most horrific material. Please remember that a troll does have an alternative if he has something of value to say: there are services on the net that provide messaging systems free of charge. So the troll can set up his own message board, where he can make his own decisions about the kind of content he will tolerate.Just how much can we expect of a webmaster when it comes to preserving the principles of free speech? Some trolls find sport in determining what the breaking point is for a particular message board operator. They might post a dozen messages, each of which contains 400 lines of the letter "J". That is a form of expression, to be sure, but would you consider it your duty to play host to such a person?Perhaps the most difficult challenge for a webmaster is deciding whether to take steps against a troll that a few people find entertaining. Some trolls do have a creative spark and have chosen to squander it on being disruptive. There is a certain perverse pleasure in watching some of them. Ultimately, though, the webmaster has to decide if the troll actually cares about putting on a good show for the regular participants, or is simply playing to an audience of one -- himself.
What about Free Speech?
When trolls find that their efforts are being successfully resisted, they often complain that their right to free speech is being infringed. Let us examine that claim.While most people on the Internet are ardent defenders of free speech, it is not an absolute right; there are practical limitations. For example, you may not scream out "Fire!" in a crowded theatre, and you may not make jokes about bombs while waiting to board an airplane. We accept these limitations because we recognize that they serve a greater good.Another useful example is the control of the radio frequency spectrum. You might wish to set up a powerful radio station to broadcast your ideas, but you cannot do so without applying for a license. Again, this is a practical limitation: if everybody broadcasted without restriction, the repercussions would be annoying at best and life-threatening at worst.The radio example is helpful for another reason: with countless people having a legitimate need to use radio communications, it is important to ensure that nobody is 'monopolizing the channel'. There are only so many clear channels available in each frequency band and these must be shared.When a troll attacks a message board, he generally posts a lot of messages. Even if his messages are not particularly inflammatory, they can be so numerous that they drown out the regular conversations (this is known as 'flooding'). Needless to say, no one person's opinions can be allowed to monopolize a channel.
The ultimate response to the 'free speech' argument is this: while we may have the right to say more or less whatever we want, we do not have the right to say it wherever we want. You may feel strongly about the fact that your neighbor has not mowed his lawn for two months, but you do not have the right to berate him in his own living room. Similarly, if a webmaster tells a troll that he is not welcome, the troll has no "right" to remain. This is particularly true on the numerous free communications services offered on the net. (On pay systems, the troll might be justified in asking for a refund.)
Conclusion
Next time you are on a message board and you see a post by somebody whom you think is a troll, and you feel you must reply, simply write a follow-up message entitled "Troll Alert" and type only this:The only way to deal with trolls is to limit your reaction to reminding others not to respond to trolls.By posting such a message, you let the troll know that you know what he is, and that you are not going to get dragged into his twisted little hobby.
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