Me and my husband were in our bedroom this morning. I was looking for matching socks for this kids from the sock box. He came up to me and tried to grab my boob. I flinched back and told him that that was the boob with the lump in it and that my boobs hurt. He implied that I was just trying to use my lump as an excuse. Sorry if I am a bit subconscious about my breast right now. I mean I don't want him to like squish 'it' and make 'it' pop or something. I know that most likely will not happen, but these are the things I think of. well this escalated into an argument and he told me to 'get over myself'. I told him that I am sick of him grabbing my boobs and that since he does it, the kids think it is okay to poke my boobs. he told me, (his exact words) " you gave up your rights to your breasts after you had 4 kids" WTF!!! I told him have you heard of 'personal space' . this is my fu**ing body. If I don't want someone touching me, that is my prerogative. Then this fight turned into cleaning the house and that we are going to have guest over on Thurs. Yeah I know that the house needs to be clean, but I am not going to make it fu**ing sparkle. For god sakes, it is just my parents coming over. Unlike his parents, (mostly his dad), my parents understand that we have four kids and it is a head ache trying to keep up on cleaning every freaking corner when the tornado of kids is right behind you destroying everything you just did. I guess he must think that I enjoy cleaning. then I pointed out the mess that he left on the coffee table and he cleaned it up. It is just amazing how the little freaking things help!!! Now if only I can break that habit from the kids.
well that is all for my ranting, for now anyway.
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I'll agree with you - WTF? If I don't feel like being touched, which lately, my breasts have been rather sore, then Jon understands.
He just needs to grow up and start respecting you as a person. He's such a butthead. It is true that if the kids see him doing that then of course they will copy him. He needs to watch what he is doing and saying when the kids are around. Plus he needs to help a little at home as well as far as cleaning up his own messes.
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